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We have always known the danger of even normal displays of affection, such as alienation, rejection, being shamed. The lesson? Being connected to straight men has always been contingent on keeping everything in close check … well, until recently.

The once-rigid lines how do gay guys flirt masculinity have softened to allow for much greater variety in appearance and self-expression for all men. The differences between gay and straight men how do gay guys flirt much harder to discern these days, including in the ways that affection is shown. At a recent gay wedding of two millennials I was stumped by the guest list. All of the younger guys at this wedding looked, dressed and acted similarly.

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He could flirt with gay men and not be out of his comfort zone, but he is attracted to women. It made me even more curious.

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So, I asked a straight male acquaintance in his early 20s about flirting with gay men. Does he? Would he? Then I asked him whether a gay man flirting with him would be okay.

He is right! And then one more recent experience to ponder. Several gay male friends and I somehow started talking about how gay and straight men interact so differently than they once did not so long ago.

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how do gay guys flirt Now that is secure, I thought, far from the caution and reserve I described earlier! Find something interesting, appeal to whatever he excels in and he will feel important. Make eye contact and touch him just a little bit.

It is about confidence and security. Those who can look directly into the eyes of another man and not break away will have a foothold in the relationship immediately.

Those who are self-conscious and play it safe will be at a disadvantage across the board. The lesson is that everyone can loosen up, especially gay men who, for so long, have had to be careful about letting others really know.

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I already do things like "You did a good job" when another man would belittle themselves on a task. I don't consider this flirting. However, when straight men put their arms around me like "we're buddies" I dislike. It's the attention. I start to think that I may have a chance with this person.

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If I'm in a relationship, How do gay guys flirt most definitely don't want to be flirted with, especially by men identifying as straight. I'm a person who doesn't flirt to begin with, so that's just me.

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The gaze will likely be appreciated and returned. A place to start.

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